Does Grief Lessen Over Time? (I am talking a long time.) by Ann Hoff May 31, 2022Lori Davidson The magic of that first relationship with a pet does not dim. Yet it can be obscured by our grief, but the love stays. Whenever you have the unobscured view,...
Don't Let Tomorrow's Grief Rob You of Today's Joy by Ann Hoff April 26, 2022Lori Davidson I have shared this story with you because I was doing something back then that I don’t do now, and you shouldn’t do. Instead of enjoying the moment, enjoying that...
Taking the Time to Say Goodbye - (Pre-Pet Loss) by Ann Hoff March 29, 2022Lori Davidson There is a time when you know your pet’s life is coming to an end, but the timing isn’t there quite yet. This period is referred to as a “pre-loss...
The Importance of Grieving Pet Loss by Ann Hoff February 25, 2022Lori Davidson People in general are not good helping others with grief and grieving, and that can be doubly hard when they don’t understand how important our pets are to us. Some...
Do You Want to Put up a Memorial for Your Pet’s Life? by Ann Hoff January 26, 2022Lori Davidson When pets come through from the other side, it is usually with pure love. They also say the crazy things they loved to do. That they are healthy and out...
When Pets Grieve by Ann Hoff December 29, 2021Lori Davidson When you lose a dog or cat, it can seem singular, like the loss happened to you alone. However, when we lose someone, we aren’t the only one who loses...
Grieving a Beloved Pet: Consider Having a Celebration of Life Ceremony November 30, 2021Lori Davidson I believe we need to grieve to process our grief, which is why the ritual of the funeral and body viewing came into being with humans. Does it make sense...
Grief is Real – Pet Loss Breaks Hearts October 26, 2021Lori Davidson Here is one of the reasons to keep trying to plow through grief: there is a bottom. The bottom might not be today, or three days from now but there...
A Letter from Your Pet by Ann Hoff September 28, 2021Lori Davidson6 comments You did everything right when you helped me transition to this place you call heaven. Don’t feel guilty that you didn’t notice I was sick fast enough, or that you...
How to Support Someone Who Lost Their Pet by Ann Hoff August 31, 2021Lori Davidson To be honest, most people are awkward in the face of another’s grief. That is compounded when they are not “animal people” and don’t understand the deep bond between another...
Sharing Grief In Order to Get Through It by Ann Marie Hoff July 28, 2021Remy Bibaud If you do not FEEL your grief, if you gloss it over like a putting a fresh coat of paint on a rusty fender, it is still there. Then when...
When Pets Grieve by Ann Hoff June 22, 2021Remy Bibaud One of the things about grief is it is solitary. Even though the whole family loses a loved one, we each knew that being as an individual specific to us....